first step: let the tracee connect before the remote tracer
and let's have a "no wait" mode where the local tracer starts
the tracee before the remote tracer is connected

get rid of T_send(), no use anymore

The T only works when it's TRUE, the version without shared memory
is not supported anymore.

as special events.

If we store all received events to a file, this dump is now
self-contained. Helps to analyze traces.

Some functions have also been factorized in the process, too much
duplication.

(Also tracer/Makefile was forgotten in previous commit, included
in this one...)

This message sends configuration for all events.

to connect until it succeeds

it probably makes things zillion times slower but it seems to be necessary